EVER HAD A CONFLICT??WinkIf you have never had deep conflicts within, you are a better person than me and most others! Some we feel overtly; some come from a place we are really not conscious of.Very deep, sometimes quite forgotten, damaging emotional conflicts persist below the level of consciousness.At the time of these occurrences, they may actually have given our emotions violent twists which have discoloured our personalities and altered our lives for the worse.In the process of regaining the life I was meant to live, I had to revisit conflicts both conscious, and by digging deep through a guide, those which were buried in my subconscious. After discovering the conflicts, I had to write them down to get them into the light of day. I was shocked by some of the issues I rediscovered that I had never dealt with.There is a huge new services business that has happened around us- Conflict Resolution through Mediation. This industry deals with many issues before "court action" occurs, and it works.Personal coaching is similar, but involves one client at a time. There are conflicting "I" at work within, at least there were for me. We hear of Mr. Jekyll and Doctor Hyde, I had them at work. When I said things like I am mad at myself, who was mad at who? This was my internal conflict; you may be able to relate. I needed and got personal conflict resolution help and doing so may really help you. You are important.Got an interest in talking about this subject? Email me at khbray@hopeserenity.ca for a confidential, no obligation chat.Thought to Ponder . . .Serenity is not the absence of conflict but the ability to cope with it.To my friends in the USA, have a great 4th weekend, don't do anything that will cause remorse and be serene!!
Keith Bray, BA, MCLC
Coached To Success/Hope & Serenity
Coaching "The Creative Theory of Life Recovery"