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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.sober.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Addiction, Recovery and Relationships Blog-RelationshipVision, The Online Relationship Training Resource...</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/default.aspx</link><description>Daniel Linder will define the relationship model of addiction and offer expert advice regarding:

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For treatment facilities needing to incorporate Relational Recovery Training modules into their treatment and aftercare regimens. </description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2008.5 SP2 (Build: 40407.4157)</generator><item><title>"It's Not What You Think, It's What You Feel...."</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2010/03/15/quot-it-s-not-what-you-think-it-s-what-you-feel-quot.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 11:01:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:69754</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=69754</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2010/03/15/quot-it-s-not-what-you-think-it-s-what-you-feel-quot.aspx#comments</comments><description>RelationshipVision is pleased to announce a collaboration with Embracing Change from the UK. Christian Pankhurst, the President of Embracing Change will be offering his home study program, &amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s not what you think, ...it&amp;#39;s what you feel.&amp;quot;...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2010/03/15/quot-it-s-not-what-you-think-it-s-what-you-feel-quot.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=69754" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction+support/default.aspx">addiction support</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery+coaching+recovery/default.aspx">recovery coaching recovery</category></item><item><title>Finding True Love Through Intimacy</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2009/12/18/finding-true-love-through-intimacy.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 13:33:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:66171</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=66171</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2009/12/18/finding-true-love-through-intimacy.aspx#comments</comments><description>Finding True Love Through Intimacy By Daniel Linder MFT A lot of people have been asking about true love; is there such a thing; if so, what is it? Is it attainable; if so, how attainable is it? If it were just love, I wouldn&amp;#39;t have so much difficulty...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2009/12/18/finding-true-love-through-intimacy.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=66171" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/substance+abuse/default.aspx">substance abuse</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction/default.aspx">addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery/default.aspx">recovery</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery+coaching/default.aspx">recovery coaching</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/Finding+True+Love/default.aspx">Finding True Love</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/Love/default.aspx">Love</category></item><item><title>Me, You, Us - Entering the Sacred Space of Co-creation</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2009/12/18/me-you-us-entering-the-sacred-space-of-co-creation.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 13:31:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:66170</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=66170</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2009/12/18/me-you-us-entering-the-sacred-space-of-co-creation.aspx#comments</comments><description>Intimacy is something we all want, yet it remains elusive, rare and mysterious. Some people have intimate relationships, but most don&amp;#39;t. Lack of relationship fulfillment is the norm. Many of us want to know how to establish an intimate relationship...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2009/12/18/me-you-us-entering-the-sacred-space-of-co-creation.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=66170" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/_2600_quot_3B00_No+Intimate+Relationships+During+the+First+Year+of+Sobriety_21002600_quot_3B00_/default.aspx">&amp;quot;No Intimate Relationships During the First Year of Sobriety!&amp;quot;</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/What+is+intimacy_3F00_+How+does+it+happen_3F00_+What+is+entailed_3F00_/default.aspx">What is intimacy? How does it happen? What is entailed?</category></item><item><title>Diagnosing Addiction: The sooner addiction is detected the more favorable the prognosis.</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/diagnosing-addiction-the-sooner-addiction-is-detected-the-more-favorable-the-prognosis.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 14:51:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:39632</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=39632</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/diagnosing-addiction-the-sooner-addiction-is-detected-the-more-favorable-the-prognosis.aspx#comments</comments><description>Diagnosing Addiction by Daniel Linder MA, MFT as featured in September, 2007 issue of Recovery Today. When it comes to treatment, &amp;ldquo;rule of thumb&amp;rdquo; is: The sooner addiction is detected the more favorable the prognosis. The goal is always to...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/diagnosing-addiction-the-sooner-addiction-is-detected-the-more-favorable-the-prognosis.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=39632" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/substance+abuse/default.aspx">substance abuse</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction/default.aspx">addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery/default.aspx">recovery</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction+support/default.aspx">addiction support</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/Diagnosing+Addiction/default.aspx">Diagnosing Addiction</category></item><item><title>"No Intimate Relationships During the First Year of Sobriety!" </title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/no-intimate-relationships-during-the-first-year-of-sobriety.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 14:49:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:39631</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>11</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=39631</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/no-intimate-relationships-during-the-first-year-of-sobriety.aspx#comments</comments><description>&amp;quot;No Intimate Relationships During the First Year of Sobriety!&amp;quot; by Daniel Linder MA, MFT, as featured in March 2007 issue of Recovery Today. Recovering addicts hear this all the time in 12-step programs. However, this sound bit of wisdom is rarely...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/no-intimate-relationships-during-the-first-year-of-sobriety.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=39631" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction/default.aspx">addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery/default.aspx">recovery</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction+support/default.aspx">addiction support</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/_2600_quot_3B00_No+Intimate+Relationships+During+the+First+Year+of+Sobriety_21002600_quot_3B00_/default.aspx">&amp;quot;No Intimate Relationships During the First Year of Sobriety!&amp;quot;</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/_2600_quot_3B00_No+Intimate+Relationships+During+the+First+Year+of+Sobriety_21002600_quot_3B00_+substance+abuse/default.aspx">&amp;quot;No Intimate Relationships During the First Year of Sobriety!&amp;quot; substance abuse</category></item><item><title>Question regarding "Isn't your Relationship Model of Addiction just a summary for co-dependency?"</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/question-regarding-isn-t-your-relationship-model-of-addiction-just-a-summary-for-co-dependency.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:20:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:39622</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=39622</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/question-regarding-isn-t-your-relationship-model-of-addiction-just-a-summary-for-co-dependency.aspx#comments</comments><description>From an anonymous author: Isn&amp;#39;t your Relationship Model of Addiction just a summary for codependency? A relationship model of addiction seems to put under the microscope the various relationships of subject and source ... subject and subject, for...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/question-regarding-isn-t-your-relationship-model-of-addiction-just-a-summary-for-co-dependency.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=39622" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/substance+abuse/default.aspx">substance abuse</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction/default.aspx">addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery/default.aspx">recovery</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery+coaching/default.aspx">recovery coaching</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/drug+detox/default.aspx">drug detox</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction+support/default.aspx">addiction support</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/sober+rehabs/default.aspx">sober rehabs</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/alcohol+treatment/default.aspx">alcohol treatment</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/drug+rehabs/default.aspx">drug rehabs</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/Introducing_2E00__2E00_.The+Relationship+Model+of+Addiction/default.aspx">Introducing...The Relationship Model of Addiction</category></item><item><title>Question regarding "Relationship with a Source of Relief?"</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/question-regarding-relationship-with-a-source-of-relief.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:10:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:39621</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=39621</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/question-regarding-relationship-with-a-source-of-relief.aspx#comments</comments><description>from an anonymous author: I appreciate your efforts in writing about this subject, I find it fascinating. You mentioned, &amp;quot;The &amp;lsquo;relief&amp;rsquo; that the &amp;lsquo;relationship with a source of relief&amp;rsquo; provides is from pain or frustration related...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/question-regarding-relationship-with-a-source-of-relief.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=39621" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/substance+abuse/default.aspx">substance abuse</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction/default.aspx">addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery/default.aspx">recovery</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery+coaching/default.aspx">recovery coaching</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/drug+detox/default.aspx">drug detox</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction+support/default.aspx">addiction support</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/sober+rehabs/default.aspx">sober rehabs</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/alcohol+treatment/default.aspx">alcohol treatment</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/drug+rehabs/default.aspx">drug rehabs</category></item><item><title>Introducing… The Relationship Model of Addiction</title><link>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/introducing-the-relationship-model-of-addiction.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">ef14edf5-e9d5-4917-b2be-d0a96e715b5a:39620</guid><dc:creator>RelationshipVision</dc:creator><slash:comments>6</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=39620</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/introducing-the-relationship-model-of-addiction.aspx#comments</comments><description>As featured in the June, 2007 issue of Recovery Today In inherent limitation of the medical model is ignoring the fact that &amp;lsquo;pathological dependence&amp;rsquo; implies that a relationship, one that is emotional and psychological in nature, has formed...(&lt;a href="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/2007/11/26/introducing-the-relationship-model-of-addiction.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.sober.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=39620" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/substance+abuse/default.aspx">substance abuse</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/addiction/default.aspx">addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery/default.aspx">recovery</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/recovery+coaching/default.aspx">recovery coaching</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/Introducing_2E00__2E00_.The+Relationship+Model+of+Addiction/default.aspx">Introducing...The Relationship Model of Addiction</category><category domain="http://www.sober.com/blogs/relationship_recovery/archive/tags/True+Love/default.aspx">True Love</category></item></channel></rss>