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CLEANING UP OUR PAST
AMENDS
I am amazed today when I appreciate how
much garbage from my past I carried around for such a long time. Much of it was
buried deep in my subconscious. Although I knew I was troubled about things,
and occasionally would twinge when I ran into someone or a thought would creep
in to my conscious, I was not aware about how the past affected the quality of
my day to day life.
Through the process of the 12 steps, I had
to take a look back into my life, and the method I chose and now use as a
coaching tool, took me into distant and small corners of my past. I learned
just how much garbage I still harboured about people from my
past; distant up to fairly recent.
To clear my own head, in one way or
another I found a way to clean up these issues through amends. When properly
done, the amends heightened the amount of serenity I had in a larger way than I
could have ever thought possible. The following was a good reminder:
“I don't believe I need apologize for
being human; rather, I simply need to acknowledge that I was at fault and
humbly ask to be pardoned.
I do not need to make amends on my
hands and knees; I need to walk tall, without false pride.
They, too, may have been at fault, but
I am neither their God nor their conscience.
I am responsible only for
myself.
- Anonymous
Thought
to Ponder . . .
It is the highest form
of self-respect to admit mistakes and to make amends for them.
Once I got
the past cleaned up, I have worked very hard to clean up my garbage as I go
along. How liberating to take responsibility for the mistakes I make, and square up
right away. This idea comes directly from the 12 steps, and is a part of the
Co-Creative Process of Life Recovery I live and coach.
Need some
help with this? Feel free to contact me at khbray@hopeserenity.ca.
Posted
Thu, Apr 2 2009 10:07 AM
by
keithbray
